Everything here is my opinion and not a substitute for medical or mental health care.
Attachment Healing
Anxious Attachment
Avoidant Attachment
Avoidant Attachment
For those with an anxious attachment style securing a mate and keeping them is of utmost importance, however when the mate gets too close they react to escape the relationship to avoid being hurt again.
Avoidant Attachment
Avoidant Attachment
Avoidant Attachment
For those with an avoidant attachment style, avoiding relationships and sabotaging the ones that get too close is a survival strategy to avoid being hurt again.
Anxious (Fearful) Avoidant / Disorganized
Anxious (Fearful) Avoidant / Disorganized
Anxious (Fearful) Avoidant / Disorganized
The Fearful Avoidant attachment style has the most red flags on it in the dating world, and is the attachment style I’m healing from.
This is the messy cycle of the dating pool people seem to get stuck in.
Secure Attachment
Anxious (Fearful) Avoidant / Disorganized
Anxious (Fearful) Avoidant / Disorganized
If a mother becomes attuned with her baby, she will understand the different cries, and respond to her baby’s needs, immediately knowing whether her baby is hungry, needs their diaper changed, or simply wants connected attention. Her baby will learn that it’s safe to rely on others to have their needs met, and feel secure in doing so, which is the basis of developing a secure attachment style.