Since healing from psychological trauma is a precise subject, it's important we find people who understand what they are talking about. I we don't waste my time, my energy, or exacerbate the mental turmoil I'd already been dealing with.
If you are dealing with psychological trauma, talking to a family counselor may or may not help, and actually could be re-traumatizing. I have experienced being re-traumatized by mental health professionals numerous times, and I have also received life changing help from the right therapists, so I understand the importance of the therapist not only understanding what they are talking about book-wise, but hearing
I want to be able to have the confidence they understand why I feel the way I feel without me having to explain it, and they can help me see stuck points my survival brain created for me to bypass.
When you find the person's style that you resonate with best, you'll know better what you're looking for, and remember every therapist you talk to is a person just like you. They have life problems they are working out just like anyone else.
Just because I am building this webite, It may not be me you gain the best understanding from, and it doesn't have to be. I am not for everybody, I don't know everything, and this is okay. I'm not from the clinical world, and you may want to learn from someone there.
What's important is you find the answers you've been looking for, so you feel a greater sense of peace and settlement in your system than you had before finding them; and that you're able to do this in the present moment.