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Emotions, Thoughts, Cognitive Biases

Emotions and Thoughts happen as a part of our survival system operating, just like blood being pumped through the veins is a result of the heart beating, emotions and thoughts are not who we are. Always remember, all thoughts and emotions are temporary.  

The Human Body

Before getting into emotions, thoughts, or cognitive biases, we have to realize it is the body as a machine we are talking about. 


The human body is a biological self healing survival based organism, and I see it as a time machine. It is here taking up one partition of human sapace on the surface of the planet, one rotation at a time for as many rotations as it can stay alive for. 


It essentially runs on emotions fueled into it's system to interact with an electrically charged nervous system, causing us to move into safety before we have time to think about it inorder to survive first, make sense of it after. 


In this dynamic we have what's known as:

1.  The Endocrine system, which is the emotion system

2. The Nervous system, which is the electrically charged hardwiring, and operating system

3. The Psyche, which is the survival mind


The mind personalizes everything it can about every experience in order to make sense of it, as well as to hedge and adapt our own behavior to survive within the rank and files of the tribe(s) we are part of, be it big or small we are one species of tribalites, our human species. 


We have a Being consciousness which is the higher conscious energetic intellegence about us as We know we are here reading this. The Human component is the  

Emotions

Emotions skew the lenses we see the world and make our decisions through.  


Emotions are something we all have and experience, thoughts happen and create emotions; 

Most of us have heard the word "Nervous System" so much we've learned to take it for granted. 


However, without the Endocrine System the nervous system would be essentially useless. 


This is because the endocrine system produces emotions for the electrically charged nervous system to feel. The brain, is at the top of the nervous system, resembling what I see as the head of a jelly fish with nervous system's tenticles draped throughout the body. 


Emotions remain mostly unaddressed because so many of us (especially males) were taught to reject the notion that we are experiencing anything other than anger, some occasional sadness, and those in the love/connection category. 


The reality is, our survival system runs on emotions. It produces emotions to interact with our electrically charged nervous system. Without one there is not the other. 


Our ancestors did their best passing on the best information they knew for us to work with, and this could have very easily been, quit crying, toughen up, walk it off, rub some dirt on it. There's nothing personal happening here either, because it was most likely exactly what they themselves learned about dealing with and understanding emotions. 


The survival brain is part of the nervous system and it defaults to survival based sortcuts in thinking called heuristics, an example of a heuristic is if I touch a hot stove, my survival brain notes stoves can be hot. If I developed a cognitive bias from that, my survival brain would note all stoves are hot. 


*Tip* (I am not particularly good at identifying specific emotions as they're happening, so I have learned to categorize them by their polarity, either negative, neutral, or positive).

Emotions

Emotional Operation

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

Emotional Operation

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, PhD

Endocrine System Organs

The Biological Lifespan of Emotions Is 90 Seconds

Endocrine System Organs

Siebert Science

Emotions And The Brain

Emotions And The Brain

Endocrine System Organs

The Endocrine System

Emotions Vs Facts

Emotions And The Brain

Emotional Intelligence

Prof. Kristin Lindquist

Emotional Intelligence

Emotions And The Brain

Emotional Intelligence

Dr. Daniel Goleman, PhD

Emotional Intelligence

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotional Intelligence

Dr. Daniel Goleman, PhD

How Emotions Work

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotional Intelligence

Prof. Lisa Feldman Barrett, PhD

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotions and Feelings

Emotions And The Brain

Emotions And The Brain

Emotions Happen And We Feel Them

Emotions and The Brain / Limbic System

Thoughts

Thought happen as a byproduct of emotions running through our system. Thoughts are also something we create. 


We experience something like 60-70k thoughts per day, both survival based automatic thinking called, Implicit Thoughts, as well as conscious thoughts that we use in an attempt to make sense of the implicit thoughts, know as Explicit Thoughts. Both are always interacting.


An important realization is we are not our thoughts, and we can see this when there's us observing our thoughts as the impartial stand alone entity to them being produced by the brain, just as blood being pumped through our bodies by our heart. 


*ANALOGY: 

-Implicit thought is like:

The autopilot system reacting in real time.

Whereas 

-Explicit thought is like:

The pilot consciously analyzing the map and making decisions.


Implicit thought is:


  • Automatic
  • Fast
  • Usually unconscious
  • Emotionally and physically driven
  • Learned through repetition, conditioning, and experience
  • You often feel implicit thought before you consciously “hear” it.


Examples of implicit thoughts:


  • Instantly feeling unsafe around someone without knowing why
  • Automatically slamming the brakes while driving
  • Reading body language unconsciously
  • Feeling anxious before realizing what triggered it
  • Habits, instincts, biases, emotional associations


  • Implicit thought is heavily tied to:
  • Pattern recognition
  • Survival processing
  • Conditioning
  • Procedural memory
  • Emotional learning


Neurologically, it is often associated more with:

  • Limbic system activity
  • Basal ganglia
  • Autonomic nervous system processing
  • Fast predictive processing networks


Explicit thought is:

  • Conscious
  • Intentional
  • Slower
  • Reflective
  • Language-based
  • This is the “inner narrator” most people identify as thinking.


Examples of explicit thoughts:

  • Solving a math problem
  • Planning tomorrow
  • Analyzing your emotions
  • Deciding between two options
  • Explaining your reasoning out loud


  • Explicit thought is tied more to:
  • Working memory
  • Deliberate attention
  • Logical reasoning
  • Verbal processing
  • Cognitive control


  • Neurologically, it relies heavily on:
  • Prefrontal cortex
  • Executive functioning networks
  • Conscious attention systems
  • Simple Analogy


We also have ego dystonic and ego syntoic thoughts. 


Ego dystonic thoughts are 1 off conscious shocking rogue thoughts the mind takes exception to; an example being, I wouldn't randomly slash someone's car tires on my way into the grocery store, or run across the street and beat up my neighbor for sweeping cobwebs off of his garage, but I've had those thoughts. When I did I thought what the hell is wrong with me? 


Turns out, if I didn't notice the thoughts and they were in line with who I am there would be something wrong with me, and the thoughts would be ego syntonic. Ego syntonic thoughts are the bulk of the thoughts we experience that go unnoticed because they are in line with who we are at our core. 


I notice I experience an overabundance of ego dystonic thoughts during flashback. I'm learning to catch it and let it go. I even talk to myself saying, "Nice try mind, that's ego dystonic" and let it go. 

Thoughts (and memories) Get Fragmented

Extreme enough psychological truma / stress response activation fragments thoughts.


Know about this, so you're able to allow youself to give yourself a sense of grace for it happeining in the first place, if it does. 


I have shed a lot of tears in overwhelm, confusion, and frustration over this one. 


Writing an email that once took me 25 minutes before the symptoms of PTSD can sometimes take me 5-6 days of actual concentrated work through frustrated exhaustion, fragmented thoughts, dissociation and harsh self criticism for taking so long. 


When I learned about my thoughts fragmenting it helped part of my mind settle a little bit, going "Ah that's what that is". It's still exhausting and terrible, but at least now I'm more easily able to give myself a sense of grace. 


Knowing that I am not lazy, stupid, or incompetent, but that my stress response system intermittently activating, causes a distruption takes some of the sting out of the experience.

Thoughts

What Are Thoughts?

What Are Thoughts?

What Are Thoughts?

What Are Thoughts?

Thinking

What Are Thoughts?

What Are Thoughts?

The Science Of Thinking

Thinking

Thinking

Thinking

Thinking Fast and Slow, Dr. Daniel Kahneman

Thinking

Thinking

Thinking

Dr. Joe Dispenza

Heuristics and Cognitive Biases

Cognitive Bias is the name for the results of faulty survival brain shortcuts. 

These survival brain shortcuts are known as Heuristics. 


Every human being experiences cognitive biases, so there's nothing personal or unique about any of us experiencing them.


There are an estimated 150-200 different cognitive biases we have the capacity of experiencing.

List Of Cognitve Biases

Cognitive Biases

What is Cognitive Bias?

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

What is Cognitive Bias?

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

What is Cognitive Bias?

We all experience Cognitive Distortions / Biases, especially when under the influence of stress.

We all experience Cognitive Biases, and there's nothing personal happening, it's our survival system

We all experience Cognitive Distortions / Biases, especially when under the influence of stress.

How Is Cognitive Bias Displayed Under The Influence Of Psychological Trauma?

Calm My SYstem
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