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Sensory Processing Sensitivity

15-20% of the overall tribe falls into the Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP) caretaking band of the overall tribe, 80-85% falling into the warrior band, some being hybrids. And remember, even though we happen to live in modern days, we are still built on the framework, and run on this primive operating system.

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This website is brought to you by the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP).

This website is brought to you by the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP).

This website is brought to you by the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP).

This website is brought to you by the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP).

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Survival activation for people with SPS and without SPS

SPS vs non-SPS, Surival System Activation

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Sensitive The Untold Story

Sensitive The Untold Story

Understanding Tribal bands and survival traits

Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS) is a survival trait, not a diagnosis. It should not be confused with PTSD, anxiety disorders, or other mental health conditions.


When I first heard the term "Highly Sensitive Person" (HSP), I dismissed it as inconsequential word fodder. The name sounded hokey, and I assumed it wasn't worth my time. I was wrong.

Dr. Elaine Aron, PhD. coined the term HSP in her formally discovering the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity (SPS) in 1991. 


I did not seriously investigate SPS until after Intensive Outpatient PTSD treatment, when I finally had the time, space, and courage enough to do so. 


I watched Sensitive,The Untold Story, and when Dr. Aron mentioned the influence of Carl Jung in her work, I began paying close attention to what was going on. Before trauma therapy I had never heard of Jung. After trauma therapy, I will never forget him, as his work helped me heal. 

I stopped casually watching and started intentionally investigating.


Research suggests this trait exists in more than 100 species and is present in approximately 15-20% of humans.

Some researchers theorize that while most of the tribe focused on action, exploration, and execution, a smaller percentage was naturally inclined toward observation, awareness, risk detection, and caregiving.


Whether viewed through science, temperament, or tribal metaphor, SPS represents a distinctly different way a minority population of people process the world.


The D.O.E.S. Model

Dr. Elaine Aron uses the acronym D.O.E.S. to describe the core characteristics of SPS.


D — Depth of Processing 


People with SPS tend to process information deeply.

When something captures our attention, we often immerse ourselves in understanding it. The subject usually needs to matter to us and be of our own choosing; we are rarely motivated simply because someone else says it is important.


O — Overstimulation


Because more information is being noticed and processed, overstimulation can occur more easily. Crowds, noise, conflict, emotional tension, multitasking, and prolonged stress can consume significant mental bandwidth. The same system that allows for deeper awareness often requires more recovery time.


E — Empathy


Many people with SPS experience strong empathy and emotional attunement.

We often notice shifts in mood, emotion, tone, and body language before they become obvious to others.


S — Sensitivity to Subtleties


Small details frequently stand out.

Changes in facial expression, social dynamics, environment, mood, energy, or risk may be noticed long before others recognize them.

If these characteristics sound familiar, you may be among the 15-20% of people with the trait of Sensory Processing Sensitivity.


HSS + SPS


Not everyone with SPS is quiet, cautious, or reserved.

The people Dr. Elaine Aron primarily describes in The Highly Sensitive Person often resemble the temperament of a bedside nurse—calm, patient, nurturing, and attentive.

However, research suggests that approximately 30-50% of people with SPS also possess the trait of High Sensation Seeking (HSS), sometimes called thrill and adventure seeking / novelty seeking, and this is where Dr. Tracy Cooper, PhD comes in. 


If SPS explains the bedside nurse, HSS/SPS is more like the ER nurse, flight medic, firefighter, or first responder.

Both care deeply.

Both possess a heart of gold.

One prefers calm and predictability.

The other willingly runs toward challenge, novelty, pressure, and uncertainty.

This combination can feel like having one foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake.

Part of you seeks peace, calm, and safety.

Another part seeks adventure, growth, challenge, and intensity.

Learning that this was the operating system I was working with made a lot of life make more sense and relieved a significant amount of unnecessary suffering.


Why This Matters


Research suggests people with SPS may be more affected by difficult environments, chronic stress, and traumatic experiences. The same research suggests they may also benefit more from supportive, healthy, and positively reinforcing environments.

Neither strength nor weakness.

Simply responsiveness.

Imagine a job that requires both a hammer and a micrometer.

You can pound a nail into wood with a micrometer, but it is inefficient and eventually throws the instrument out of calibration.

Likewise, you can use a hammer to measure something, but it will never provide the precision of a micrometer.

Both tools are valuable.

Both tools are used on the same job.

Both have strengths.

Both have limitations.

The goal is not to become a different tool.

The goal is to understand the tool you've been given.

When we stop fighting our nature, give ourselves grace, and radically accept what we're working with, we become far more effective at working with it.

For more information on Sensory Processing Sensitivity, see Dr. Elaine Aron's website:

Dr. Elaine Aron, PhD

Sensory Processing Sensitivity (HSP)

Sensory Processing Sensitivity In Men

The Documentary based on 25 years of scientific research

Like noticing out of a flock of geese grazing a field there are a certain number who seem to  always remain on the look out for danger, never eat, yet somehow they are fine, and some infact look well fed. This display of nature is in over 100 species of animal as well as humans.


Humans have the capacity to personalize the fact of having a survival trait in the first place, even though there's nothing personal about survival to begin with. A couple of years ago I got to participate in a follow up documentary to Sensitive The Untold Story, which is about the survival trait Sensory Processing Sensitivity. The documentary I got to be in is about men with this survival trait is called Sensitive Men Rising.


Episode #1 https://vimeo.com/973949385

Episode #2 https://vimeo.com/974093290

Episode #3 https://vimeo.com/1033358744


I invite you to learn about this sensory processing sensitivity as a highly potent survival trait that can serve us all well when we all understand it, wether you have Sensory Processing Sensitivity or not, it behooves us all to understand what it is representing the 15-20% that balances out the other 80-85%. If you go to Episode #1 minute 45:00 - 53:00 you can watch / hear me speak for a bit. 


I apologize if the links for the docuseries don't work. When I'm able to solve that glitch I will. 

I encourage anyone to find and watch the docuseries all the way through in its entirety. 

Awareness benefits all the members of the overall tribe in some way. 


For those of us with the trait(s) a sense of peace and settlement knowing we are not fundamentally flawed at our core, because somewhere among a genetic minority of people who largely do not know we exist as a people, we are considered normal; so... right on. 


For those without the trait, when you learn to spot it and know the hidden super powers this trait is capable of producing, I'm guessing you will want to deliberately incorporate it into whatever team you are building. Know what it is and cultivate an environment to get themost out of it. 


Do not build the entire team out of people with this trait because it would be somewhat ineffective, or without this trait because it would be mediocre at best. Find the right balance, unlock and synergize the superpowers of both people with SPS and people without SPS. 


Know what it is you are able to know, know it well and use it well. 


All the best,


Andy


Here is a link for Men with Sensory Processing Sensitivity to learn more

William "Bill" Allen- 


William Allen is an author, hypnotist, and neurofeedback practitioner whose work focuses on helping highly sensitive people—particularly men—better understand their temperament, regulate their nervous systems, and live more authentically. Through his books, coaching, hypnosis, and brain-training programs, Allen promotes greater self-awareness, emotional understanding, and nervous system balance.

www.TheSensitiveman.com

SPS + High Sensation Seeking- Thrill and Adventure/Novelty Seeking (Yes it can be exhausting).

Dr. Tracy Cooper is a leading researcher and educator on Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) and High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive People (HSS-HSPs). His work explores how deep sensitivity and a drive for novelty, challenge, and growth can coexist within the same person, offering practical insight into self-awareness, nervous system regulation, creativity, and human potential.


When I worked as a first responder, I worked law enforcement patrol, however the group of people who most closely matched my temperament were the paramedics. I appreciated the personality temperament of most of the ER personnel, as well as flight medics. 


So if you fall into this category by temperament, Dr. Tracy Cooper has some great stuff for you. His work helped me say, "Oh that's what that is..." and better understand some of my weird quriks and feel more settled in my own skin.

Here is a link to Dr. Tracy Cooper's website:

Dr. Tracy Cooper, PhD

www.DrTracyCooper.org

Sensitive Men Rising Docu-series

Episode 1

Episode 1

Episode 1

Sensitive Men Rising Episode 1

Episode 2

Episode 1

Episode 1

Sensitive Men Rising Episode 2

Episode 3

Episode 1

Episode 3

Sensitive Men Rising Episode 3

Books / Resources

Here are links for books of authors regarding HSP and HSS/HS
Social / Tribal Aspects Of Human Beings / Prof. Mark Leary, PhDSPS / Dr. Elaine Aron, The Highly Sensitive Person (Discovered the trait. Great book for those with the temperament of a bedside nurse)SPS / Dr. Tracy Cooper, Thrive: The Highly Sensitive Person And CareerSPS / Dr. Tracy Cooper, Thrill: The High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive PersonSPS / Dr. Tracy Cooper, Empowering The Sensitive Male SoulSPS / William Allen, Confessions Of A Sensitive Man

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